Give me a cyber-punch in the nose if you want to, but the letter sounds a little like you're being his therapist and maybe that's why he said he felt like he was being interrogated. (I was also going to suggest that you refrain from the mention of K and your X, sticking to the GOOD feelings that came up for you, but you already had him read it before getting feedback here).

I am still coming to terms with the way most men aren't well equipt to identify their emotions, much less verbalize them. Maybe I expect too much, because I've had men in my life that are who are fluent in that area.

I felt like you put CJ on the spot, he blanked and probably felt like he was given a pop quiz first thing in the morning before a cup of coffee, LOL!