that was a totally nice, totally fine email! Almost too nice, if you ask me.
I'm so sorry you had to deal with H calling you up and being terrible about it.
But--if it helps you see that H is not the man you fell in love with--if his bad behavior helps make it more and more clear that he is a different person now--maybe it is OK that he acted like such an a&&h**le (IMHO) about your email.
If a little righteous anger helps move you along, good.
How are your moving plans going? I'm actually jealous that you and Pearl got to hang together in person!
Talia, I don't know how you or any of you, are listening to music/songs at all. For me, it is all Salsa or Afropop or Cajun--anything with some rhythm and NO words I can understand!