I think Bill and Deb set a good example to their children that we do not always need to go running off after love. Love is great. And I can see from their posts that they show love for each other whether they are together or not. But it is important to have priorities in life, and running off to play siamese twin with your soulmate should not take precedence over other things. People often delay gratification, whether by going to college and graduate schools, off to war, or in this case, raising children before getting together with their loved one. Teaching the benefits of delayed gratification to children is an important lesson. Bill and Deb are doing right by their kids and by each other.