No it was 3 weeks ago she asked we do taxes,in the garage, which she says is when i keyed her car, before the superbowl is when she asked me and that was last time talked to her or anything.

because i hadn't talked to her it's given her time to work on D.

which D isn't talking to me, wife told D i was having the court sell the house, so they would have to move out of state and dad's a bad guy.

so d's back to telling me what to do, so i'm just documenting, cause wife told d she could see me when convenient.

but because dad told d when she had to serve detention and spanked her for having the police drop her off,wanting her home sold,keyed mom's car,took away her phone,mom said it's my life can live it how i want,your place is boring,your place doesn't feel like home,you made me go to counseling,spanked me for lying, it was just a lie. Etc, so anyway, I'm going dark for alittle bit with D too.

with d i know a kid will come back to stability so vs it being a make to see me rather be wanted,but also don't think a judge will like a court order being broken,a child told the things d has been told.

I'm beat, but I'm in a good spot, yes i have probably texted,talked or emailed wife too many, WAY Too many times in the last 3 days, but leaving me holding the bag on a $26K tax bill,what she's told D, seeing my stuff being sold in a garage sale when i shouldn't be picking up son, but she wouldn't drop him off.But seeing my stuff being sold, just acted like it didn't bother me and I HAVE NOT ASKED THE KIDS ANYTHING ABOUT WHAT'S BEING SOLD.

Don't freak, gave kids what was important and I didn't have much, can tell you where to get a Dale Earnhart Jr lifesize cutout.:)Clothes,I've lost 50 lbs and well don't want anything from past life, it's helped quite a bit with detachment and moving on.