The first six months she's out of the house is going to be euphoria for her. She can do what she wants, when she wants with no one to answer to.

It's at least six months before any kind of loneliness or reconsideration is going to set in.

That's the advice several have given me. In my case, I made it even easier by being the one to move, being generous with support -- money and time.

It's only now 10 months later that she's really cratering financially and the girls -- especially the older one -- are gravitating towards me more and more. W is so closed off they come to me with their feelings.

So don't expect anything to get better for at least six months.


Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11
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