MF, I joined divorce busters! And please bear with me, but I couldn't figure out how to be your friend!

Now about the spanx and false advertising...yeah the spanx should be used as a motivator to get the flab off! (IMO!) But it doesn't make you look like a completely different person--just takes off 10-15 pounds!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004