Newmama - You need to meet ST - Crissy. She single-handedly brought her marriage back from a really, really bad spot, INFIDELITY and all. Her approach was much like yours, WITH very young children. I'm going to send her over. You will just adore her, AND you'll meet her in the alt. She's cute as they come, too!
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.