I don't know. This is no-win. My H notes my GAL and has made both neutral, positive, and snide comments about it. There's no way to know what people think. And it changes every day. But yes, I have thought and wondered what you are thinking above. You don't want him back out of guilt. And guilt just makes them hate you more because it reminds him what he's doing, and what he's choosing, D, is totally optional. So YEAH they want it to be convenient. No doubt.
Do you have something out of the house planned for tonight or are you going to try to enjoy your peace and quiet?
