All I can say is wow. My wife just called me to tell me that she didn't want me to feel that I'm trapped here by my job search because of her and the kids. She would move to wherever I have a job opportunity.
She then went on to ask how my Grandma is doing. When I told her that Grandma wasn't doing well, she told me she wanted me to take a trip to see her. Otherwise she knows I wouldn't forgive myself if I didn't see her before anything happened. My wife said she wouldn't clean up the emotional mess if that happened. SHe then said "well I would, I don't want to have to."