the word is out

[courageous wife]

Well, guys, I think that I plan to go to the "big city" tomorrow and look for new bedding after work...may meet up with my brother if he can get away for dinner or a drink. I have a Victoria's Secret and a Borders GC that I need to use and will be nice to shop at those places without the kiddoes!

Talked with a former co-worker today who is on her 3rd marraige. The first one told her after 12yrs and 3 kids that he never loved her and the second one was abusive and the 3rd one is, 4yrs later, the best thing and they are very happy! She was on her own for a couple of years and was able to gain self-confidence but never really faced the abuse demons and is working on that now as she does not want that to interfere with her marraige now! Was good to talk to her!!!

I have made out a calendar of the "going's on's" for H for the month of March telling when PT conferences, S's next Dr appt and time, etc. and will give it to him when he brings the kids home. Am keeping my fingers crossed that he does stop by SS's tomorrow to visit!!!