And Irma, I am glad you have so much adoration for him. But honestly if he were to come home tomorrow could you really handle it? Could you continue to live your life with him if he came home without any remorse or apologies? You know m'ija, Latinos are proud men, and very rarely do they admit when they are wrong. Love covers a multitude of sins, I know this from my own experience, but I also know that you have to be ready and it will not be what you expect. The problem is Irma, that MLC'ers do not make any changes while they are away. They do not work on becoming a better person. Yes they have guilt, and regret but they do not know what to do with it. While they are away the LBS learns about their issues and begins to do the work. The MLC'er is stunted. Sometimes they never quite catch up to us, as much as they try. Besos Oz X
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
