doesn't change the argument that it costs you nothing and if you at least use the opportunity to contrast HER behavior towards you, with YOURS towards her...that's worth something. Isn't it? And the "cake eating" is more related to them using you--e.g., for childcare while they date or some other "abusive" behavior, not just getting a benefit that costs you nothing--plus the whole "teach them consequences" thing IS NOT Dbing which says "Life teaches them consequences..."it's not your job to do that. Period. Just raise your kids...move on. See what happens...
Hey everyone-- this is a fine line at times and we all have to find it. I think when it's a close call, I'd rather err on the side of compassion than looking or being punitive. Let each of us find that fine line.
K4, I don't agree that your sitch justifies an annulment at all, and I think you are using it as an un-needed excuse to be free, BUT that does not matter. I don't have to agree with you; no one does!! THis is your life. Live it free from fear or the need for approval from others.
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
