Hi friends, Yes - I am feeling just fine about things, actually. Woke up feeling - I am done with this dude!! He called me 5 times last night (never answered) after our initial call. Then texted me 'why won't you answer my calls?' (Talking to my mom and then doing my meditation video). Then, at 12p he texts me: "Sorry I was upset you just caught me off guard". I was going to respond back but proud that I did not. (180 for me).
Today I got a call from him again..did not answer. He did not leave msg. My initial reaction (to myself) was: "leave me the F alone.."
I am done with him. I am over his BS. I'm actually glad I sent it b/c in some ways it brought out his true colors. It's not MY problem if he has gobs of debt... as I was cleaning my apt today I kept thinking Pearl, what you've said to me, "he chose his actions..he can live with the consequences..." I now FIRMLY believe that. His issue if he blew through his modeling check via 6x trips.
I know what I will agree on and I still want it in writing. I am DONE. Finally! and I feel just fine.
Thanks Pearl...all this advice has finally sunken in! Let's catch up soon (I've been following your posts and I SO hear you...I've been there too!)
