The thing about MLC is that it's all about the MLC person. Look over your thread. Everything he told you skewed around him...his needs, etc. There's nothing you can do to talk him out of it. He has to do it on his own.
Accept when he asks you out, just not all the time. Say you have plans. Show him happiness in regards to how YOU are happy in yourself without him. This will force him to look at himself rather than blame you for HIS unhappiness.
The fact that he said he wants to date other women is a big red flag. You can't really stop what he's going to do, but you can lay down a boundary. You can tell him that you think it's disrespectful for him to do so when he's in a R with you. Then end the conversation. Give short answers.
The longer you talk to him, the more ammunition you give him to argue HIS point. Take that away and let him deal with HIS issues HIMSELF.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.