Haven't been posting much of substance on this thread of late...pondering why.
I think it's just one of those spells of "normalcy"...no real issues (except for the usual), no negative interactions, no icky feelings on my part...
I still have questions...but as time passes their urgency fades.
Wonder if anyone else is experiencing this?
Shiny
here! sometimes I think it is during these times when I start sniffing around looking around for something to worry about or be concerned about etc...ya know like rattling the birds cage when it finnaly shuts the hell up just to make sure it's still alive and then wondering why the hell ya did that as it's gonna take a bit before the darn thing gets quiet again. (ok so I've never actually had a bird but I imagine that's what I'd do if I had one so best I don't huh!)
it's a good thing shiny...is part of why I don't bother to post much on my thread anymore and decided to not start a new one...not enough drama in every day "normal" married life to interest.
Question for you, how do you change black and white thinking? I believe that has always been the way I do a lot of my thinking.
I think my mom is that way and that is the way us girls were raised. I believe at least one of my sisters tends to think black and white as well.
Maybe the baby doesn't, I don't see her often enough to know!
Is it through your self talk? That is my guess as that seems to be the root of changing a lot of things. At least that is what the C I was seeing would say to me at times.
Pam
"We must be willing to let go of the life we had planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us"
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