I think it is wonderful that Hearts Blessing is here to answer questions about MLC.

Unfortunately, HB doesn't have a crystal ball and is unable to see into the future.

Each situation is different.

And each person has their own timeline.

Nobody knows who will return home or who will get Divorced, there are so many factors involved. Your WAS doesn't even know if they will return home or not.

The main idea behind DB-ing is to save yourself. IF the Marriage is saved then that is a bonus.

Everyone here contributed in some way to the demise of their marriage.

The very best thing you can do for yourself and your children is to work on your issues, not your WAS"s issues.

Change is hard and uncomfortable.

But it needs to be done.

There can be no testimony without a test.
I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.