She must be seeing a lawyer...what now?

[Awoken]

Thank you everyone; I'm trying to stay strong. Today was/is a difficult day. I went to my friends funeral, then met with a Realtor to look at possible house I could downgrade into. I have to decide weather I want to try to keep the house I'm in now, or find something much cheaper, but in the same school district. I doubt me or STBXW can afford to keep the house, as much as it will disappoint S13 and D17.

W emailed me today saying that her lawyer wants me to make her an offer. I'm thinking, we just filed a counter-suit, can that be my offer? Of course, I'm waiting to hear from back from my own lawyer. Again, I think STBXW needs to do her own work. It's looking like I'll be the one selling the house, finding us places to live, taking care of the financials, etc. I could choose to do none of it, but it seems like its best to protect myself.

I'm very frustrated and ready to move on. Sometime soon, I'll need to start another thread in surviving the big D.