Bunny, your H is not the typical LBH. Nor are you an "average" WAW.
My friend, I gotta tell you that I don't think he will ever get it.

One screamingly- obvious aspect of your sitch, your life, is that with H everything - everything - is about H.

Gardener

"My soul, be satisfied with flowers,
With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
Cyrano deBergerac