IF. Don't worry your pretty head about IF Right now. She hasn't asked and there is no sense going there unless she does.
Stay strong. Stand up straight. Look her in the eye and say I'm not comfortable with that. No apologies.
Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08, S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012! Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.