Oh we're not at the snuggle phase yet, it's a miracle H can be on the same couch at all with me, clinging to opposite sides, lol.
Help veterens?....
He is still struggling with "he can't get over the past and doesn't trust me". NO jumping in with me yet.Working on continuing to let him go and ride the fence as things are looking up but could still go either way. He needs to figure out for himself what he wants. He's still in victim mode and can't forgive and forget.
Well I guess my new goals will center around more indepenence and looking like the better option while being ok if he D's me. If he can't forgive then he can't forgive. BEing sorry can't take that away from him. I guess I listen and validate? Help veterens?
