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[DiamondGirl]

Hi HB,

I was wondering about the guilt that the MLC feels. Do they ever come to terms with it in the later stages?

I am concerned because my H has done what I know in his mind is the absolute worst thing he can do to me as he watched his mother suffer through his dad's continuous infidelities as he grew up. He swore to me when we were dating that if he ever did that to a woman he'd never be able to forgive himself and would never return to her if the relationship ended. We had promised each other to leave before that ever happened, but he didn't. So I am concerned that the depth of his guilt will prevent him from seeing that I have overcome many challenges and can overcome his infidelity as well.

I know each MLC is different, but your view would be appreciated.