Acceptable contact while GD?

[SweetCyborg]

OH -- WAIT!.. She HAD OM broke it off (mostly b/c they still work together), they are not currently involved, though I'm sure he'd love to swoop in.

I should update my sitch post, and just stay in one post (even if under different topics guh). Dammit.

One of the reasons, I couldn't 'let it go' was b/c occasionally, OM would still write to her and say "why can't we still be friends" even after they had EA/PA and she told him she was recommitting to her marriage (apparently she didn't, but also I didn't GAL or read DB until this 2nd separation). Our MC suggested she could file harrasment charges, which pissed her off b/c she would constantly HATE being reminded that SHE cheated, that HE was a predator of someone suffering low self-esteem.

This time, I'm doing it all different. They're not involved now, but if they get that way (OM is now divorced) fine, I'm moving forward with my life.

So if she asks to move back in "as friends' (stupid hopeful me ), I should say? I understand I would have to keep the changes going, GAL, not pursue. etc.

She's very 'particular', and I KNOW she misses her house, but there would have to be some HUGE boundaries in place for both of us, maybe not a good idea!