We are human beings, we have feelings. I as of that moment want to punch my H.
I think I wouldn't talk about H with the spy. I would feed an info such as "I had an awesome time dancing out on a date last night". The message that you want that spy to convey is that your H is not your priority anymore, "talia has not mentioned you once", if there is something that he wants to get done with you, such as taxes, he has to do something to sort it out.
Don't you just hate when they expect you to be their secretary?
