Can I just say I'm wow'd by all the support, advice, and help you've given MB and everyone on here. You really put a lot of time into your responses. It's great. I too follow and take your advice.
Not a probelm. I am pleased to see others reading this thread for advice, I try to visit only a few threds and focus on those... I find I am typing the SAME THING into each thread anyways... so its better if everyone goes to one or two threads to hear what I think instead of me typing the same advice across 12+ threads lol
This advice is pretty straight forward, but it is VERY hard to do...
When you give your SPOUSE a taste of divorce, you give yourself one TOO... and it isnt' pretty...
BUT... it DOES send a strong message to the wayward to COME HOME or they are HEADED for a PERMANENT NO CONTACT arragement...
WHen you go protection phase and cut off contact, you are essentially telling them
THIS Is what its giong to be LIKE very SOON if you dont STOP...
MOST dont LIKE the protection phcase and losing contact... they throw tantrums... and VERY often the abandoned spouse has a LOT of trouble executing it... they give in, call, pikc up the phone when he calls, they find any excuse to call jsut like the wawayrd does..
MY advice is to move OUT and live with a FRIEND who can be your buddy for support... you don't do ANYTTHING without them knowing and THEY keep you strong...
Right now mb28 you are trying to do it all on your own.. its NOT easy to do... ask for help.. SOMEONE will help you, even if you have to HIRE someone.
