Also, the 4 hours you are gone you can use to STUDY at a library or a friend's place, or go out to eat and read some textbooks... its four hours a week or whatever that YOU are free to focus on school or whatever you want...
AND you KNOW you woant have to deal with H.
This IS how DIVORCE works once the papers are signed.. he gets vistiation rights and once his visit is OVER he goes AWAY... bye bye.
He does NOT like that, he EXPECTS you to BE there for his calls when he wants to call... YOU need to show him what DIVORCE is like so he gets a TASTE of the dirction he's headed.
If you dont' show him where he's headed, he's NOT going to stop his affair... he needs to SEE the WATERFALL his ship is headed to or he's NOT giong to turn around the boat. See?
When you contact him you are showing him he's sailing nice and safe down the river... he needs to SEE the DANGER SIGN... NO CONTACT gives him a NASTY taste of DIVORCE...
He's cake eating right now and he's NOT gonig to quit under those cirucmstances...
