Flowmom, what was your "sample size" (lol) when coming up with 4 months?

I am not a pushy person about giving advice usually, but please do not shoot yourself in the foot
DO NOT BRING UP R TALK. 0. NADA. ZIP. You must accept that you don't have control over whether he wants to D or R. It is up to him. (you can control what you want if you want to D. )

You CAN make it worse though.
I say this out of TLC (((Flowmom)))

LIVE IN THE PRESENT.

Last edited by newmama; 02/26/10 07:55 PM.
me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004