Going dark will not work because in the context that I am doing it I am still using it as a ploy to get her back. The going dark should be about me trying to find who I am. I assume this is the right answer.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
