I meant, what does it take for a guy to become aware of the fact that his wife left him because he hurt her? What makes him wonder, "did I do something wrong?", instead of assuming "she's got issues." But seriously- he knew I was hurt, I told him that. What he wanted was more important.
Oh, Spy. I am right there with you, mama!
I have no idea what makes them *SEE* this but again, like PMA said, focus on YOU. Maybe one day he'll get it but you don't need to be wasting your time waiting for him to FIGURE it out. Grrr. Big hugs.
