TTA, Ditch H and go with the friends. It will be a good 180 for you and its better you DON'T let him see you grumpy. Since your feelings about him/ the sitch are the apparent reason for the grump it might be better to steer clear.
Letting him see you in that mental state would not be conducive toward your goals. You need to stick to your goals!!
And you are correct - you have been meeting alot of his EN's lately - perhaps this is one time you should not do that.
MHO...
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