Well, I signed the affidavit today. I had to make an oath on the bible that the contents of the divorce petition were true. Actually it flashed across my mind that I was lying as it states the adultery started in November 2008, that was just when they moved in together should I need to 'prove' it. Still, I guess it doesn't matter.
It is quite a process this. I think I have to wait now for the Decree Nisi, then 3 months to change our mind and then the Decree Absolute, then 6 weeks again after that if we want to change our mind. In a way it is good that they make sure that you are really sure but on the other hand it draws things out even more. Still, I'll be in Thailand.
I got a text from h today to let me know that he had sent the letter to the solicitor saying that he would pay the remaining costs.
I'm chilling out this evening trying to get over the inevitable cold I get when dealing with this stuff.
My goodness, that is quite a process. You are right, at least they make triple sure that this is what you really want because once it's done........it's done.
Relax, recoup, and recover! Chicken soup and a hot toddy usually do the trick.
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!
Actually today I've had the worst food poisoning I've ever had. Very unpleasant! I'm feeling a little better but still in quite a lot of stomach pain. I did just manage to eat some dry toast.
Other than that, I'm really good. I handed in my notice at my job yesterday (over lunch that gave me the food poisoning!) and am just enjoying spending some QT with Maple (as I have no money for a social life) and waiting to go away. Actually I was supposed to be going out tonight and had been looking forward to it all week. Oh well, I shall just have to watch Johnny Depp being interviewed on my fav chat show instead.
Ugh! I hope you feel better soon. I had food poisoning once and I had to call my Mom to watch the baby I was so sick. 16 years ago but I remember it like it was yesterday.
Get some rest and maybe it's your turn for tea.
hugs, kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory
Well hopefully it wasn't intentional on the company's part since you were handing in your resignation! Sorry you are going through that.
I had my own food poisoning experience and the memory does stay with you a very, very long time. I absolutely thought I was going to die. It was over some bad salmon - it was literally years before I could even think about eating salmon again. For the longest time I couldn't even smell the stuff much less eat it. Hope you are better soon! Saltine crackers are helpful as well as toast.
Lol, ouch except I can't laugh it hurts!! I think I was already eating the offending item when I said it They took the resignation pretty well considering I am the only employee and they are a bit stuffed. My Chairman asked what he could do to make me stay, I replied nothing I don't think anything beats Thailand.
It seems seafood is the theme. I think it was either calamari or haddock that did it. I did properly think I was dying in the middle of the night and this morning.
