Cyborg, Keep to one post. Definitely. People can't get to everyone and if you have 2 posts going you will get less response.

Hmmm. Listen, she wants to work out. So sorry. I don't think I'm comfortable with that. Or, I'd rather you didn't.

Yes Going DARK is hard. But Dark is DARK. I seriously doubt she will ask why you haven't called her. If she should, I would say, "pardon me? Act surprised. (I would genuinely be surprised.)

She has an OM, she left, and she should wonder why YOU haven't called HER? NO! Wrong answser.

Trust us veterans on this. I know it seems counterintuitive not to call. You are worried she will think you don't care, etc. Can it. You have to be strong. If you aren't there yet then fake it till you make it.

Me 45, H 46, S 23, M 26, Together 30, Bomb 6-2-08,
S 6-19-08; H left 12-29-08. H home 12-09, Still MLC in 2012!
Me- I have my big girl panties on. Bring it.