Acceptable contact while GD?

[SweetCyborg]

So...today WAS emailed that she would like to use the treadmill and workout after our meeting with the realtor tomorrow. (this would be the first time she's been in the house for more than a few minutes in two weeks). She also wants to go over the taxes, and then workout at the house on Sunday.

What ground rules should I set (other than the list of GD, not talking about R etc.)?

I plan to go out at the same time she plans to be there, so maybe that's good enough.

We're just talking to a realtor to see how we can unload the house (underwater) either through short sale or foreclosure but not making any firm decisions right now either way.

I want to be friendly, strong, confident, unrattled...

BTW, I set up the meeting with the realtor, part of my GAL plan since it seems I may think about going to NYC with or without WAS.

Thoughts?