I haven't read the entire sitch but I am VERY happy for you and Ron as well...
I'm soon to D and WAW is w/ OM in a hot and heavr R- as she calls it now.
It's sad that R/M's can fall into the Pursuit-Withdrawl model, and I know it's tough work.
mar- I hope everything works out I know your feeling about time, but you must be patient. You are lucky b/c of your child- there is time- remember that.
Also remember he may be db-ing as well, so it will not be the easiest thing.
I so pray that my WAW can muster the courage and resole to seek me out if her A fizzles- we too had a decent M and know exactly where things went wrong.
I will pray for you and I am so happy that you know what you want- remember never give up hope.
