Ring On or Ring Off????

[ddstartingover]

I've been down that road more than once...I know this one wouldn't be any different. I just want to know why he only sees this as the answer----and I KNOW, he either doesn't know himself or I wouldn't like his answer. My first L appt. is Tuesday, and for some reason I'm dwelling today......I've known and loved my H for 30 years, and none of this makes sense. His birthday is the 7th---wondering if his most recent extra hard push has something to do with that.