I know that my state is no fault- I will speak w/ L about these things though.
I just read that 20% of women marry their lovers...that's pretty crazy!
I have done the concerned H thing- it's ironic that although I know where my motives are and my respect, I come off as the STBX in deep denial claiming self-righteousness...oh well.
I've maintained NC now for a bit and will continue to do so.
I do hope that it crash and burns- there is no M now and I have no W.
I did however read a few sitches in D but not done, and I was elated to read some success stories...particularly those where the XW was embarrassed by her double life...
I will make that last stand and warn W...but not anytime soon.
Something will obviously happen- she's giving up an awful lot, not saying I'm the greatest catch- and the sad truth is the facts of the failure- I don't think too many people can sucessfully ignore that for too long
