shiny, side point after i read earlier that cj has not been working for a long while

do you think that this fact has anything to do with his mood as of late? no matter what, in this world we live in the MAN is supposed to be the breadwinner - and men who are living on the support of their wife, well sometimes, it can make them feel very inadequate. and plus you have admitted that cj had a problem with you being controlling

just asking a question shiny, just to shoot something out there. you well know what feeling inferior can do to a persons self esteem and then eventually their everyday life. maybe he is "escaping" by being on the computer so much

just curious

kitti