trying4years...I haven't read the book you mentioned but it has been discussed on this forum in the past. You say you read it, what did you glean from it? ... DQ
Thanks for replying DQ, I do have great respect for your ideas from posts I have read over the years!
What I gleaned from it is that some (or all?) women want their man to be dominant in bed. They want them to take them and ML to them and F them until they are tired and then put them up wet. I will have to pull the book out and review it. I do remember that this particular book stressed this behavior was wanted in the bedroom only, not outside of it.
I have also read many of the good books recommended here, several of Micheles, NMMNG, His needs her needs, several of Snarchs books (I remember really liking PM I think it was...)
What I personally have trouble with, is my W included in this group or not? How can I figure this out when my DW (who is normally so talkative and has such strong opinions about every topic in the whole world, except this one?) clams up so tight and will not discuss these things with me? If she will not talk about it, and I can understand for a woman it is NORMAL :> not to talk about it, what means of sensing and knowing can I use to figure this out myself?
I am also still interested, are there any ladies who do not want a alpha male in the bedroom? And if so, in what way do you communicate that to your DH?
