Thanks Sue...

Had to smile there...CJ as shy!!! NOT! This guy loves having parties (or at least WHILE they are going on!) and going to parties...he's no wall flower.

I think what he meant and I happen to concur, is that we DID have a big 40th for him here two years ago (last year was in the midst of the madness ) and this year we're both so busy with school, neither of us feeling "up to par" and then there's this pal wanting to latch her b-day onto his (meaning MORE people invited)...it just seemed like too much for right now.

Shiny