that last post was one of the best ones I've seen. except your sarcasm at the end. quit that!
do you really think him wanting to spend time with you, telling you nice things are all just an evil ploy? I think not.
so continue doing what works.
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I haven't looked at our cell phone bill or our american express account to see how much he's spending - now I'd consider that Not focusing on him
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I decided I would be nice and ask him about his trip (not quiet like usual)
these are good things, good job! now keep focusing on you enjoying your life. you want him to be drawn back into your life right??? so you need to SHOW him why he should be drawn back in.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
