Not sure which way to go anymore

[Mystik]

That's why I said no talk about reconciling while he's living with her and is going to continue doing so. Not fair to me to get my hopes up then make me sit and watch him carry on living with her. It's a boundary I set and am sticking with. If/when he wants to talk at the end of March I may push him off until April. Because in March he'll still have two months left of living with her. I figure the earliest he could move would be sometime in May, so why talk about it a whole month before that? Why not wait and talk about it when there's only a few weeks until he can move? I can't move until school is over the end of June so most likely he'll have to move in with me and DS for the month of June and we can rent a storage unit or something for some of the furniture that won't fit in my apartment.

I am also unsure of moving back in together right away is a good idea. I might propose he find a studio or someplace for himself while we work on our relationship and then move in together once we're more established as a couple. Last time he talked about it he wanted to get a three bedroom and all of us live together while we work on repiecing.

How does repiecing even work? Is it living apart for awhile and essentially going through the dating process again? Is it living together as roommates and working towards moving back into the same bed together? Or are you supposed to jump right back in with bed sharing and lovemaking to help with the repiecing of the emotional side of things? I'm confused, but I understand no use worrying about it now, since it's not happening right now.