Just as CJ was leaving for group today, I asked him again if he was sure he didn't want to have a party here for his birthday (it's on Friday), as I have to contact another friend to let her know (her birthday is the day after).
He said "no, don't want to have a party here, we're both not feeling well, don't want to get into an ARGUMENT over my birthday..."
Of course I picked up on that word and repeated it and he backtracked and said something about all the stress of preparing for a party and how sometimes we HAVE had arguments at these times (true).
Now am I just parsing words? (Which I HATE when CJ does to me) or is this significant? Does he not want a party? Or does he not want the percieved hassle of putting it together???
Hmmmmm....
Shiny
maybe instead of having a party there wich would involve cleaning up and preparing you could call some of the gang and get them all to meet up somewhere to celebrate with dinner or some horsederves (however ya spell it) and cocktails.
