Just as CJ was leaving for group today, I asked him again if he was sure he didn't want to have a party here for his birthday (it's on Friday), as I have to contact another friend to let her know (her birthday is the day after).
He said "no, don't want to have a party here, we're both not feeling well, don't want to get into an ARGUMENT over my birthday..."
Of course I picked up on that word and repeated it and he backtracked and said something about all the stress of preparing for a party and how sometimes we HAVE had arguments at these times (true).
Now am I just parsing words? (Which I HATE when CJ does to me) or is this significant? Does he not want a party? Or does he not want the percieved hassle of putting it together???
