Allen,
I do have a distinct ring for my H, so I do know when it's him. However, when I get a text I do get all anxious thinking it's him. As I posted, he sent me that text last night "I hope you had a good birthday" and my first instinct was to reply with a thank you, but I didn't. I didn't reply at all.

I wanted to ask if you think I should start wearing my ring again?


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10