H in MLC help!!

[petals]

OK so wat we have done on fiancial terms is- we split the credit card debt in half, we both took equal shares and put them in each other's names only, same with two of our cars ( i own a third out right in myname only). The house is th only joint debt we have. I will buy him out of the house when the time comes if i can afford it- if not then i will sell it. As far as Assets- yes we have a lot of household assets that he says he no longer wants. When he leaves he will take a bed, clothes and his work out equipment. He as always been fiancially stable and brings home 2x amount of cash than i do. I dont see him making any tupid financial decisions. He had no debt prior to marrying. however, we gained debt with credit cards together.Not a huge amount, but too much as far as i am concerned. I defintaly do not believe him when he says he will take care of me whenever i needed. I think that if he finds someone- then i will be forgotten for good. Tat is my biggest fear with him leaving- he will move on a hell of a lot faster than i will if i do at all. Right now the ought of it seems disgusting to me. Also the thought of him messing around with other women- even if we are separated- we are still married and I just dont beleive in cheating even if he is in MLC. Acting like a child is what it seemds like to me- they want what they want - when they want it. They dont care who is around them getting hurt and that SUCKS. I dont know if i would be able to take him back if he had sex with other women- Im not sure i cold forgive him/forget etc. However, i will say this and this seems strange. I know to a guy- sex is only about physical actions- with that said- if it was just sex- I dont know how i would feel. If there were emotions with it such as EA prior to his involvement- then no- i think i would constantly think about all the other women... anyone else feel this way???? has anyone overcome this????