G450- I'll be joining you soon in this forum...I too am headed towards D.
I know alots happened pretty quickly- what Cutter and the others have said is true- you have huge history w/ XW, children etc...your sitch is not over yet...but from here on out, it's about you and what you are doing for you.
Don't go nuts about a possible OM- the more you dig the more attached you are- TRUST ME>
I really feel for you, but I'd trade sitches in a heart beat- my WAW is full blown in a PA and MIL supports it. We've been together only 2 years, and they were very boring b/c we were both sober our entire R, now she's drinking.
