Thankyou for your words HB!

My H has not accused or blamed me of anything until last week when he said that I was the one that pushed him to make a decision and maybe that is why I am having such a hard time. I know that I need to quit focusing on him and focus on myself and I plan to start doing that. I know that I am not perfect and could have done a lot of things differently in our marraige. I will work on those!

I will work on the "family thing" though and will be prepared for no's...

Why can't there just be some kind of magic pill???


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing