Hi welcome you sound very strong and grounded there is nothing you can really do at this point they all have similar lines' my xh said--he thought i could find someone I would be happier with this journey is time you will see how it all goes In the beginning keeping communication open was important to me it was suggested that if anything worked..keep doing it if something was not working or bringing the R better to stop I mean by better if XH wa talking to me that was better than him leaving the room when I entered so I learned to give him space to love from a distance to let go painful---YES but we do learn so much from the journey one note--He says he will take care of you financially you have a house--and you split the assets?
I might suggest you see a L- not to file just for information many times our MLCers mean well financially at the beginning mine did he paid for everything for 2 years but eeventally he filed and he ws in debt he lost everything he went in debt
they LIE A lot so be careful we cant see that in the beginning but it is part of the MLC so fimancially take care of things for you just be watchful thats all peace
married 14 years H 42 bomb 2/07 IDLYA D final 3 /09 M ow D ow