Hi welcome
you sound very strong and grounded
there is nothing you can really do at this point
they all have similar lines'
my xh said--he thought i could find someone I would be happier with
this journey is time
you will see how it all goes
In the beginning keeping communication open was important to me
it was suggested that if anything worked..keep doing it if something was not working or bringing the R better to stop
I mean by better if XH wa talking to me that was better than him leaving the room when I entered
so I learned to give him space
to love from a distance
to let go
painful---YES
but we do learn so much from the journey
one note--He says he will take care of you financially
you have a house--and you split the assets?

I might suggest you see a L- not to file
just for information
many times our MLCers mean well financially at the beginning
mine did he paid for everything for 2 years
but eeventally he filed and he ws in debt
he lost everything
he went in debt

they LIE A lot
so be careful
we cant see that in the beginning but it is part of the MLC
so fimancially take care of things for you
just be watchful thats all
peace


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow