Hi Will!! So glad you made it to the party on Friday night..did you see how smashed MAL got???

Interesting observations Jeannine, (echoed by Sage I believe)...

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Okay, this stood out for me, because I'm wondering if something had transpired recently between you and CJ in which he felt slighted and perhaps he's been stewing over it ever since (all without your knowledge).
And now he is hitting you with some passive-aggressive mud balls.

Sometimes the reason for ill feelings isn't even clear to the person experiencing them, initially



Only thing I can think of is our aborted conversation before his group meeting on Thursday. We never did pick that back up.

So he may have felt it was left hanging. I did bring up the ML issue and the Income tax refund, although it was NOT an argument from either perspective at that point.

As for your last comment, how absolutely TRUE...how many times am I feeling "out of sorts" and don't know why for some time, or it's just a combination of stress and not feeling well.

In fact CJ sent me two e-mails today...one saying this is the first morning in a week that he woke up feeling well (tummy) and that he got a 94% on another of his courses.

His second e-mail was to say he'd gotten a 96% on the third course of the term!!! The guy is golden!

When I got home from work, though, the poor guy was crashed on the couch...seems he pushed it a bit cleaning out our gutters (ice and leaves ) and had a bit of dizzy spell again...he napped for an hour or so before dinner.

So....what I figure is that MOST of "this" (whatever it may be) is a combination of not feeling well, and school stress (assignments all due recently).

I sent him a warm congratulatory e-mail and an apology for Saturday night...for contributing to him being made to feel like a "party pooper" which I, personally, HATE!!!

Shiny