Great question ...

I've just logged in after a week or so away, and I'm going to engage in this question before I read the rest of the responses (so my answer isn't clouded).

OMG ... that is such a simple question. I want a man who knows what he's doing and isn't afraid to do it. There is nothing worse than feeling like your doing some bloke a favour. (and frankly that's what it feels like when you sleep with someone who isn't sexually dominant or at least confident enough to be sexually dominant).

Having said that - misogynists are a huge turn off - and there are men who tend to act dominant in order to hide the fact that they’re not that fond of women. You can tell who they are, because they’re not very good in bed. They are out for themselves and have few skills in sensuality.

There’s another caveat – a sexually confident man isn’t afraid to allow space for his woman to be the dominant partner from time to time – that’s fun and cute and provides variety that’s essential for a fulfilling sexual relationship.

Now if I could only get the partnership and intimacy part right …..

I’m learning girls, I’m learning!!!


V

Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.