Originally Posted By: newmama

So I am a little nervous because he was being so nice. ???


Hey newmama,

I am around as I said and checking out threads. Just really busy making up 6 months worth of life and work!

Anyway, I want to say just this - how is this night any different from the last few months? I don't see anything different in the overall attitude or plan from your H. Okay the details may be different, but in general it just seems like nothing is moving forward. Everything has sort of got comfortable in that little nook or cranny and it just sits there now.

I still think you need to shake things up NM. I really do. You know your sitch better than anybody but this is just my 2p worth from outside.

Anyway, I will keep reading about you, no fear smile


Me 36, W 34 | D 8 | M 3.5y
Sep 2Aug09 | Left 6Sep09 | OM in 10Oct09 | NC 17Nov09 | Gave up caring - Jan 2010

"Have integrity. Do what is right, not what is expedient."
"Delay is the antidote for anger"